Hosting a Sin the Bottle event is invite-only. Running a kink-aware,
consent-first play party takes real facilitation, and we keep the host
list small on purpose.
What we look for
Real community involvement. You have attended kink, ENM, or
sex-positive events before and know what good facilitation looks like.
A read on consent and harm reduction. You can explain the traffic
light system and hold the CoC in a room.
A venue plan. Not your landlord's lounge room - somewhere you can
control the door, the music, and the mood.
At least one co-host who has agreed to share watch duty with you.
Each co-host raises the pair-count ceiling the app will let you run.
What you agree to
Before your first event, the app makes you accept a host agreement. It
covers the bits that matter: you vet attendees, you hold the room during
incidents, you don't film people, you don't resell information, you
report serious concerns to safety@sinthebottle.com. Read the full text at
/host-agreement any time.
What the app gives you
Pre-flight safety checklist that gates the Start button.
Live dashboard with spotlight, longest wait, throughput, red count.
Automatic recommendation for bottle count, capped by host team size.
Red-light debrief flow with opt-in incident logging.
Applicant review with approve / waitlist / decline plus private notes.
How to raise your hand
Fill in the intake form below. It asks the structured questions we
care about: community involvement, venue plan, co-host, intentions
for the event. Submission goes straight to the moderator. If email
is easier, hosts@sinthebottle.com
also works.